After writing about blessing and cursing, I went and lived a cursing lifestyle. Recognizing that brought shame and discouragement until I saw the recognition as a gift of God's grace. Seeing my shadow allowed me to experience God's love and love those around me through confession and reconciliation. Cursing is a sign of immaturity which can move us toward God who is eagerly waiting like the Prodigal Father.

Words have power, and they reflect what is going on in the heart. We can be a blessing or a curse to those around us, and we are contagious. A lifestyle of blessing brings joy. But if we aren't there, what do we do. Recognizing our immaturity through this is a gift and allows us to step into the healing and freedom that Jesus offers.