Another sign that reveals our formation into Christlikeness is our ability to forgive those who hurt us, ourselves, and God. Forgiving may be the most difficult thing we are called to do, but not doing it is too costly. It is the difference between a growing warm heart and a growing cold and bitter heart. We know it but how do we become forgiving people?

H is for Holding. Holding and being held in suffering is vital for comfort and health and a sign of maturity. Also, standing before God with open hands, not holding to things unless God wants us to, needs to be normal for us.